Happy New Year! I hope you all had a wonderful Christmas and New Year – filled with friends, family and food. I’ve neglected my blog in the last couple of months of 2016 but I’m kicking off being back with a blogpost of my goals for 2017. If you were wondering where I’ve been, I’ve been rather busy doing vlogmas on my youtube channel, I managed to vlog and upload every single day in the lead up to Christmas (I’ll link the playlist here if you haven’t caught up yet)!

Before I kickstart this post, I just want to say that I truly wish every single person reading a happy and healthy 2017. Last year may have been amazing for you, or awful, and either way I hope 2017 is (even) better for you. On a more serious note, humanity is continuing to fail us, so as an individual please do all you can to spread love and peace.IMG_5095.jpg

Let’s go!

1) Eat Better Move More – Pretty self explanatory, eat less junk food, get my sweat on more. I haven’t set myself a specific weight or size to reach because I want to measure my progress in how I feel in my own skin. If I only lose a couple of pounds but feel happy in my body then I could not expect any more of myself.

2) Be More Efficient – I am the procrastination queen, really I am, it was in my twitter bio for over a year so it must be true! This year I want to use my time more carefully, 2016 flew by and really made me realise that time slips between your fingers and you can never get it back.

3) Build My Empire – This sounds so cliche, it is I admit, I actually have it on a pencil. This year I want to create a life I love for myself. I want to make blogging and vlogging a part time job, money is not the incentive however I want to be able to have it as a job so I can focus my time solely on it.

4) Care Less – I get hung up over the smallest things. I want to care less about what others think about me and care more about what I think about myself. If I am happy with what I am doing then “those who matter won’t mind and those who mind don’t matter“.

5) Just Say Yes – I am notorious for being the friend that turns down the party invite to stay at home, eat pizza and binge watch youtube. There is nothing wrong with having those nights occasionally, but 9 times out of 10 I turn the opportunities down and it really doesn’t benefit me in the long run.

6) Make My Bed – This may sound like a messy person’s resolution but trust me I am anything but messy. I often don’t make my bed up properly with the cushions and throw because I know I’m just going to get back in it in half an hour. This goal is more about not getting back into bed, it isn’t great for you as it really should only be a place you sleep, I’m going to buy a beanbag to act as a comfy space to use during the day instead of my bed.

7) Be More Mindful – I’m a stress head, I’ll put my hands up and admit that, but I’m more ashamed to admit that I’ve been neglecting taking care of my mind over the past few months. The New Year was the push I needed to start using headspace, a meditation app again.


Hope you enjoyed reading my goals for 2017, I’m nosey so personally love reading other people’s and gathering inspiration for my own.

Leave me a comment down below with one of your goals for 2017! Have we got any in common? 

Ruby xoxo

I know I’m a bit late on the Christmas gift guide bandwagon but these are perfect last minute stocking filler ideas. All the gift ideas are under £10 so super affordable and easily accessible as they are all from popular high street stores.


Sleek “Say The Magic Word” Mini Matte Me Collection

The Body Shop Merry Kiss-mas Wand

Studio Eye Brush Trio

Tanya Burr Mrs Claus Manicure Set

Lush Golden Wonder Gift Set

Makeup Revolution Handbag Hacks Matte Balm & Mini Blender

New Look Rose Gold Sugar and Spice Boxed Candle

St Tropez Express Party Cracker

Zoella Deck The Baubles

Soap and Glory Pink Twice Gift Set


I really hope you found this affordable stocking fillers post helpful! I personally think stockings are better than any present under the tree, they’re just so magical, waking up and its appeared on your door or at the end of your bed.

Which stocking filler do you like the look of the most?

Ruby Red R0ses xoxo

You know the pain, when you’re doing your eyeshadow, you switch brushes, only to find your matte brown eye has now got pink shimmer in it from the last time you used it… NIGHTMARE!

When you’ve spent what feels like hours blending and perfecting your eyeshadow, to ruin it from an easily avoidable situation, is annoying to say the least. That’s where shadow switch* comes in, and trust me, it will be your new best friend.


Essentially, shadow switch is a coarse textured sponge in a tin. However it is actually so much more than that. Aside from the adorable packaging, the product works wonders, such a simple yet effective product.


I wrote a blogpost on how I clean my makeup brushes and I feel like this is the next installment in that series. No other method is as effective as shadow switch, it is super quick and your brushes don’t need time to dry, they are ready to use immediately.


I feel a bit like I’m stating the obvious when telling you how to use this product because it’s so simple to use. You literally just swirl your dirty eyeshadow brush into the sponge and voila! The brush is clean and you can use it without any worry of the previous colour transferring.

You can see below how effective it is, the brush had dark brown eyeshadow on it, then after swirling for a couple of seconds, it was fully clean again.


I’m absolutely delighted with my shadow switch, I wasn’t particularly overwhelmed by the prospect of it, but after testing it out I can confirm that I really do love it. It’s been a firm favourite in my morning makeup routine for the past few weeks now, I reach for it every morning, at £5.99 it is super affordable as well!

Shadow switch is the start of something amazing from Beauty Essentials, they are releasing a bunch of new products soon, which will be available from Sephora. They are currently only available on Amazon but big things are coming from them very soon so keep your eyes peeled…

Do you have any beauty hacks that I just NEED to know?

Ruby xoxo

Disclaimer – products marked with an asterisk (*) are samples but all opinions remain my own.


An insight into what I’ve been loving and reaching for over the past couple of months. From makeup to tea to skincare to food, a little dose of everything.


What has been your biggest obsession over the past couple of months?

Ruby Red R0ses xoxo

Today’s post is on a more personal topic, I am going to be discussing Aspergers syndrome, which myself and 700,000 people in the UK alone have been diagnosed with. Any health condition or disability is a serious matter, but I am going to make this post more humorous, so please take it with a pinch of salt. Remember, I am not trying to offend anybody, as I myself have Aspergers.

For those of you who may not know, Aspergers is high-functioning autism and is a different condition to autism itself. In this post I am going to be addressing Aspergers, some many apply to Autism as well, but I am not focusing on that directly.

“People with autism are naughty” – Many people with autism get in trouble, suspended or excluded from school: this gives the image that people with autism are all badly behaved. For starters, often the people who do get in trouble, only do so as they struggle with school whether that be the academic or social side. However there are still a lot of people with autism who are not badly behaved, but they get branded as trouble because of this misconception. This “naughty” label is most often targeted at people with Autism, but as many people don’t know the different between autism and Aspergers, we can all get treated like this.

“People with autism are weird” – People with any form of autism see, hear and feel the world differently. A way I like to describe it is that “my brain is simply just wired differently”. Nobody is normal, you can’t define normal, but we often struggle with knowing what is the correct way to act. What is socially acceptable to say and how to act can often be a struggle for people like myself, it is something I am conscious of everyday, but occasionally I slip up and this really upsets me.

“How do you make it go away?” – Autism is a development disability, it has been a part of me since I was born, it will not simply go away. It isn’t like an illness, I can’t take tablets or have therapy so I wake up one day and its gone. Many people with Aspergers say that “it is a part of their identity”. I was diagnosed at the age of 15, that means I had 15 years of feeling alone and different in the world, so having a label is a reassurance for me. Many people with Aspergers like having a label as it makes them feel like they aren’t just “weird”.

“People with autism are rude” – Probably the biggest misconception of Aspergers is that we are rude or blunt. I promise you, we are not trying to be, it’s just how we are. I make a conscious effort in social situations to be engaging and polite, but sometimes I am blunt without realising it, which can make me appear as rude when I am really not. If you know somebody with autism, please cut them some slack, don’t think that they are being rude because they most likely did not intend to.

“You don’t look like you have autism” – Aspergers is called a “hidden disability” for a reason, we don’t walk around with it plastered across our forehead, most of us try to hide it for the fear of being judged. Aspergers and autism is different in everybody, we all fit on this thing called the autism spectrum, which basically measures how “autistic” you are. You do something called an ADOS which has different categories and your difficulties in each are measured.

“People with autism are unsociable” – Social situations when you have Aspergers can be one of the most frightening things. Being surrounded with people can make you feel even more alone because you feel so different and abnormal. I often avoid social situations for the fear of being misunderstood and portrayed wrongly. If you are in a social situation with somebody with autism, please engage in conversation with them, they will appreciate it so much and you will make them feel less like an outsider.

“Why are they acting like that?” – People with autism can have heightened senses. Personally, I am sensitive to sound and find it extremely difficult to deal with loud noises or particular sounds. Another person may find certain textures or tastes of food difficult whilst another may not be able to touch certain materials. If put in a situation with their difficulties, it can lead to abnormal behaviour because they physically can’t deal with it. For me, I tend to put my hands over my ears and rock, to others this may look strange but that is the only way I can cope if I can’t get out of the situation. Some children may have “tantrums” if autism isn’t diagnosed and their parents are unaware of their vulnerabilities, it will look like they are misbehaving, when in fact they are just very distressed. Linked here and here are two amazing videos which I feel portray really well how it feels to have heightened senses.

“People with autism are unintelligent” – This links in with “people with autism are naughty”, misbehaving and bad grades are associated, but both are in fact misconceptions. Autism itself often entails people having speech development issues whilst Aspergers is the “high-functioning” autism as these speech development issues are not present. People with Aspergers are very often highly intelligent, performing higher than the national average and excelling same-age children in their class. In fact, some of the most intelligent people in history, were suspected to have had Aspergers: Sir Isaac Newton, Albert Einstein, Jane Austen, Charles Darwin and Thomas Jefferson.

I sincerely hope this post doesn’t offend anybody, and in fact, it was perhaps eye-opening or interesting to read. I very much enjoyed writing this post, the words kind of just spilled onto the page, I didn’t have to think hard about what to write. Sorry about the lack of photographs, I hate using images off the internet for the sake of it, yet didn’t know what I could photograph myself that fits the topic.

Please be honest, I won’t be insulted or anything like that, did you have any of these misconceptions before reading this post? Do you personally or know anybody who suffers with autism or aspergers? 

Ruby Red R0ses xoxo